The Nursing Baby - Q&A

Sandra asks:
I am wondering if there is any way that I could be away from my baby for one night while nursing? I have not been alone with my husband for over 2 1/2 years now and have been nursing all but 6 months of that time. IF (big one) I could be away how would I do it? I know the sacrifice that is needed during breastfeeding. We co-sleep and my daughter eats at least 3-4 times a night. I wouldn't know what to do. Please advise.

Sandra,

Do you have someone trusted to watch your baby overnight? Would she want to try a "dry run" and come spend the night at your house? She could be the one to sleep with her during the dry run, and feed her bottles of breastmilk when she wakes at night. Make sure her cosleeping situation is as safe as the one you use now. You will find out pretty quickly if it's going to work or not! And if it doesn't work, you can try again later! And for a third option, someone could stay with your toddler while you took your baby with you. Of course that's not as romantic! But it may still help you get some special time with your husband that you are craving.

In a way, this is much easier to do with a younger baby than an older, more separation sensitive toddler. They tend to be more easily comforted by someone other than mom. But, of course, every baby is individual with an individual reaction.

I think your impulse to spend some special time with your husband is a great one! While not every family feels the need for overnight trips away from their kids, there is no doubt many adults need a break, especially during the arduous demands of parenting young toddlers and babies!

These tips are not intended to be medical advice. Please consult your healthcare provider if you have questions.

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