The Nursing Baby - Q&A

One mom asks:
How can I get my 9 month old baby to take a bottle or cup? All she seems to do is chew on the nipple/spout. I have tried all of the different brands, have tried breastmilk, homo milk, juice, water...you name it. I have tried offering it to her hungry, tired, awake, asleep, and other people offering it to her. I am trying, despite what this sounds like(!) not to force it on her, but I do have to have her weaned during the day, as I must return to work. Please help!!!

First let me refer you to our Q&A for giving the bottle to younger babies: Breastfed Baby Refusing Bottle!

At 9 months, most babies are smart enough to eat or drink when they are hungry and thirsty. Your baby is letting you know that nursing is his preference. When you are not there and not available, your nine month old is bound to eat or drink when hungry. Let your caregiver know your baby's been reluctant with you, but let them work it out. They will be working out all kinds of personal preferences with each other - from how to make your baby smile to how to keep your baby happy during diaper changes.

There is really no urgent need to day wean before you return to work (except for your own comfort if pumping is inconvenient). Your baby will most assuredly soon learn to eat and drink when hungry or thirsty. I would caution you to back off on attempting supplements right now. You want your baby viewing the bottle or cup positively again before you return to work.

These tips are not intended to be medical advice. Please consult your healthcare provider if you have questions.

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